Today, my heart goes out to my cousin Susan and my Aunt Anita. For the past few years, they have been the primary caretakers for my Grandma Lingholm. Grandma had broken her hip two years ago, sending her on a downward spiral that eventually caused her to lose her memory, her independence and today, her life.
I hope they were able to say what was on their hearts to Grandma. I hope the rest of the family was able to as well. Regardless of condition, I believe a part of everyone is still listening as they pass on. Various circumstances in life have left me on the outside looking in, yet I am thankful that Grandma was not alone, that she was loved and cared for.
A phone call from my mom and a quick check of Facebook confirmed Grandma's passing. While we have not been close, I still felt a flood of sadness roll over me. It is further proof that none of us are invincible. My childhood is fading into a more distant memory. Another member of the greatest generation is gone. Another grandparent passes before meeting the family my wife and I are trying to create.
Grandma enjoyed life, from the casinos to her kids and grandkids. She was quick to laugh and slow to anger. She ended stories with the phrase, "And like that."
May you rest in peace Winnie. May you rest in peace.
So sorry for your loss David. By the way, your Gumpy died on my birthday last year. I have incredibly fond memories of my grandfather & your posts bring it all back. Thank you for that.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of Winnie's passing. Give my love to all the Lingholm aunts, uncles, and cousins.
ReplyDeleteYour Grandma would be so proud of what you wrote, and I know Anita and Susan did an excellent job of making her last couple of years good ones. My prayers are with all.
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